It’s very obvious that children of nowadays have continue to prove stubborn despites the efforts by the parents in order to bring out the best from the child. Perhaps, parents continue to live with abject fear all day long without hope of getting what is expected from the child.
However, the great opportunity which anybody can seek for is here. To get the best discipline from your children try autocratic approach. In this approach, you must take precautionary measures that warrant persuasion upon the child.
Individual conscience operates in two distinct states as autonomous state in which the action of individuals are self directed, voluntary and responsible; and agency state in which action of individuals are dependent on authority, not voluntary and non acceptance of responsibility and guilty “Stanley Milgram”.
This approach pushes to realize the aim parents on the accomplishment of discipline on children. The actions of discipline is centered on the child, the child is the perceiver or receiver of the acts of discipline. However parents should be assertive, stronger and insist on enforcement of discipline among their children.
On this approach, parents enforce persuasion on everything over the child and insist strict train but during adolescence, the child tends to be so stubborn; during this time, the parents are advice to be stronger, give no chances at any level, be strict and barked all your instructions with punishment if they fail to adhere with your instructions.
The mother should stress the child responsibility, establish rules that lead to success, accept no excuses, call for value judgments, suggest suitable alternatives, be persistent, invoke responsible consequence and carry out continual review “Glasser”
Mother implicit of discipline fall on this approach, discipline is the use of attribution of competence and responsibilities for misconduct by the mothers to discipline the child. When children taught how to be competent in a given work and how to accept responsibility for misconduct then the aim of discipline is realized.
Impose rule, rules make men wiser; without rule human beings are like beast “plato”