Many of us find it difficult to take charge of what comes to our way. It has never being someone’s responsibility to take control of what comes to your way.
However, 10% of your life is decided by uncontrollable circumstances and 90% is decided on how you react to those circumstances. By not wasting mental energy worrying about what should have happened, or what might happen, you can put all your efforts into making the right things happen to the best of your ability.
Perhaps, if you’re lucky, I assure you that you are even better off. At the bottom line; you cannot control everything that comes your way, but you are in absolute control of how you react to what come your way and that changes and put everything in absolute control.