It really tell on you if you are not a perfect mother; the worst that can happen to any mother would be when your child looked at you and say “I wish that I have a good mother that could take good care of me” there are mothers who preferred their careers, job positions to their children’s career. Most parents neglect to give their children the most befitting service because they preferred their careers amongst all; however, some parents deliver to their children at all cost/to any level. One of the greatest things that can happen to any mother is when your child fights and protects you as his/her mother to any level.
What comes to anybody is equal to that person, how you treat you children will determine how you children will treat and protect you too. However the power of being a perfect mother lies on the closeness and how often you relate with your children. Are you the type of mothering that give chances, optimal freedom, executive/excessive leisure to your children; it will definitely tell on you if you’re the type.
All these things are needed but at minimal level; perhaps, all a perfect mother needs is the perfection of her children and all your children need from their mother is quality treatment not exorbitant/expensive treatment “catch them young” Educational proverb.
Be a perfect mother to your own children by providing them their important needs, put smile on their faces, make them happy but not every day, deliver them in their academics to bring out their potentials, make the perfect choice for them because they deserve the best, always perform a memorable acts with them, always admire them by calling them jealous names, be close to them at least whenever they are around (Holidays time) for your presence is mightier than money and expensive cloths to them, deliver them from dangers at all cost, this will make them believe that you can die for their sake, reduce the level of your gossip whenever you’re with them, set out rules for your children because without rules human beings are like a beast “Aristotle” be perfect even if your husband is not around, show your children the level of your responsiveness this will show them know that you’re a very responsible mother.
Perhaps, perfect mothers cry with her child, sick with her child and also happy with her child, look good with her child. Happy are the mothers who are perfect.